19yr old help from parents and is on probation.?

You can always put yourself on calendar and ask for an extention on paying your fines, since it sounds like you have burned some bridges at home. Start by getting treatment for your substance abuse problems, I know you said you went through treatment already, but if you are continuing to steal and live a shady lifestyle, maybe you need to get more rehabilitation. Once you take the drugs out of the equation, then you have to work on changing your behaviors that got you into this situation, and probably need to make some amends to your family and clean up some of the wrechage of your past mistakes. This all of course takes time, and it will take time to build your repor too. It is very unlikely to hold down a job if still in your active addiction. So start with getting some treatment first. I am not sure where you live but there are alot of resources for treatment. I have been in a similar situation and am a recovering addict of five years and I now work as a counselor at a resedential program. It is possible to clear all of this up and start all over and get a good job and have a good relationship with your family again, but like I said it will take alot of work and changing of old behaviors. Maybe try going to an NA/AA meeting in your area also, and try going to some kind of labor ready or day job that you work and get paid the same day. I know things look hopeless and down right now, but it will get better as long as you keep doing the next right thing and making some changes for the better in your life. Good luck to you and God Bless